Tao of Steve – How to Attract Women

Dating advice for men on how to attract women.

Movies are highly hypnotic learning vehicles which can help you really in vision the qualities that women find attractive. In the movie The Tao of Steve (which I highly recommended), the lead character, Dex, who is very successful with women in spite of being overweight and underemployed has three simple rules, be desire less, be excellent, and be gone.

Be desire less
Being desire less and detached from results in any situation is one key to his effectiveness. Being desire less you can be just be yourself and be “totally in the moment”, and not worried about a specific outcome. When you telegraph to a woman with your body language that you don’t have any objective, her attraction for you will likely go up. The fact that you are getting to know the women as a person and not a sex object will work in your favor. Never try to impress women. The key is to show interest only after you have validated this woman as someone worthy of your time.

Be excellent
Dex demonstrated excellence through his wit, banter, quest for knowledge, and cooking. If you have a talent, by all means grasp the opportunity to display it.

Be gone
One of Dex’s favorite lines was “we retreat from that which pursues us.” What that basically means is that women don’t like guys who follow them around like puppy dogs. In life, you want to end every encounter with the other party wanting more. Don’t over stay your welcome. Any successful relationship is give and take in equal amounts. Once one party is trying harder then the other party, the relationship is in trouble.

I think this movie contains some great dating tips for men. Once you become a Steve your love life will surely improve.