How to Turn a Girl On
How to turn a girl or women on, is a common question we get here. Men are visual creatures. We are genetically wired to reproduce. It does not take much more than the glimpse of a leg to get a man in the mood. To turn a woman on, she will need some foreplay. A good rule of thumb is to take things really slow. Ask her what turns her on?
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Guys it would be well worth your time to learn as much about a woman’s body as possible. It would also do you some good to read a couple romance novels. These books will give you a glimpse at what they fantasize about and what really gets them going.
You should strive to be the best lover you can be. Your time with your significant other should be all about her. With the right woman the more you give the more you receive! You want to treat a woman’s body as the beautiful art piece which it is. You want to touch her in ways which she has not been touched. I hear it from women all the time “true men are hard to find”. Chivalrous gestures will separate you from the competition. As you become a masterful lover you will be rewarded many times over.
Women Turn Ons:
Here are some tips on how to turn your girl on. Every woman is different so just have fun and enjoy the journey!
Coat
When a women needs to put her coat on, hold it up for her. If her hair is caught under the coat, gently brush the back of her neck with your hand as you move her hair from under the coat.
Car Door
Open the car door for your lady. Once she is seated gently close the door.
Her Back
Massage the muscles between her shoulder blades and spine. As you move lower on the back her nerves become more sensitive. During sex you can even take a back-rub break to delay ejaculation.
Back of Her Knees
Once your woman is aroused trace your fingers down the thigh and calf and gently graze the back of her knee with your finger tips.
Breasts
Pay particular attention to the erogenous tissue at the top and underside of her breasts. Your touch should be so soft as to barely indent the skin. Build some tension in these areas before you touch the nipple.
Forearms
Underneath the wrist is very sensitive to touch and heat. This area responds best to the lightest of touches.
Fingers
When seated instead of the old hand holding spice it up. Run your finger every so lightly down her fingers to her palm. Start with her finger tips.
The Kiss
Softly kiss and tug on her upper lip. She will want to kiss you badly, but try and tease her a bit.
Neck
Brush your lips between her throat and chin. Also the sides of the neck are very sensitive. Lightly brush your lips up to her earlobes.
Ears
The ears offer two forms of arousal: physical and mental. Graze the rims of her ears with your lips. Then escalate to some soft tongue grazing.
Face
Massage the area of her face above the eyebrows. These will help her relax after a long day of work. Most girls love gentle kisses to the forehead as well.
We hope you enjoyed this article on how to turn a girl on.
May 22nd, 2006 at 12:01 pm
i think this is all so tru as it does it all 4 me. i am also a slag
January 9th, 2007 at 10:25 pm
yeah this is totally true ma sexy sex kitten does this..but I wonder how he already knew…well yeah he makes me feel really good….exspecially since I know he feels the same way I do…well yeah everything explains the way women think….
January 17th, 2007 at 10:43 am
oooook… for starters, guys, this is good advice. REMEMBER IT! if u wanna make ur woman feel special, this is a great way to do it… mentally, emotionally AND physically
December 19th, 2007 at 11:26 am
Wow i really think these are all great, they turn me on just reading them! Its such a shame i have an ugly face and I don’t know how to turn a girl on!
January 3rd, 2008 at 10:55 am
Omg this is so true, really good tips, on how to turn a women on.
February 29th, 2008 at 4:37 am
this is soo true, im turned in by just reading this
April 20th, 2008 at 10:20 am
thank you…I did try it and it work…guess what?? I really had a great time…
April 20th, 2008 at 1:45 pm
Hey thanks a lot for the advice it really helped a lot thanks again …..
May 5th, 2008 at 12:43 am
also hands around her waist and kiss the back of her neck whens she is not expecting it im a woman and i love it whenever my man does that to me
May 20th, 2008 at 9:33 pm
im gona give this a try but.. i want yas to all tale a look at a mans equivelent let it be known… us boys are tired of going on top during lovemaking and we sorta like it wen yas move a bit, hope my gf dont read this… but wow sum girls are lazy!
June 26th, 2008 at 2:42 am
this works kiss her lightly on her neck
June 26th, 2008 at 2:44 am
you can do this by kissing,sucking,and some times light bites do this and youre girl will be very ([[horny]])
June 28th, 2008 at 4:56 pm
a side note guys, you need confidence when doing these.
most women like a dominant man, not a pussy, they already have one of those.
so these should come off as you protecting her and providing for her, not you being a slave. especially early on in the relationship when she is learning what boundaries you have.
July 23rd, 2008 at 4:29 am
Damn i wish woman werent so hard to please but i need more tips these are helpful
August 2nd, 2008 at 7:35 am
Wow this is kool il try this tomorrow great for startes i arleady done some of this shit (all of it lol)
August 3rd, 2008 at 2:10 am
These are all great.
One thing that has worked well for me is gliding my index and middle fingers together from a girls fingertips, across her palm, and then over her wrist.
November 22nd, 2008 at 9:49 pm
Another turn on for women is when you brush her middel finger up and down slowly with your thumb and forefinger. She will not be able to wait until you get home, she will want you strait away.
November 25th, 2008 at 7:24 am
The door thing. No way. Not a turn on. If I’ve got loads of bags or boxes, sure its nice. But doing this routinely makes a person feel like an invalid. Not all girls like to be taken care of. Do you think I’m so dainty and fragile I can’t even open a door? Nope, think again! Whats more of a turn on is being treated like an equal, not like some prissy princess.
December 1st, 2008 at 9:20 am
wow… thank you this was a lot of help. thank you again
January 21st, 2009 at 2:35 am
this is so true i did this too my girl and i had her going for the whole night
February 12th, 2009 at 6:32 pm
katie i think you just have to stop being jealous because it does work
February 20th, 2009 at 5:19 pm
well no actually katie is kind of right! imagine if guys continuously open and shut the door for you…it just get annoying, especially if you are in a hurry to be somewhere and you gotta sit and wait for them to open the door for you! It would also make me feel lazy, i dont want to have to make you open the door for me thats hardly fair!
Other things that I think work are; looking a girl straight in the eyes, tracing the outline of her lips with the tip of your finger, nibbling her neck and playing with her hair. Confidence is a must too.
March 1st, 2009 at 6:51 am
licking their fingers also goin to make girls turned on… try to suck on em real good.. but be gentle dont rush
March 4th, 2009 at 5:03 am
My girl says just the way I kiss her turns her on is this normal
March 4th, 2009 at 5:09 am
foorget that just show her u love her don’t go so fast go at her pace this is coming from a guy ask her what turns her on don’t play around I ask my girl what she likes she doesn’t want sex I’m not gonna force it but I know what she likes so just ask her she will tell you remember this is coming from a guy
March 13th, 2009 at 6:45 am
WOW
) HAHAHA those these tips work for asians too 
))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) im not sure if its only my girl friend but touching her ass really gently gets her wet, and also blowing behind her ear. 
hahahaha i didny know blowing behind her ear would make her wet 
she got mad at me 
she got wet during school because of this 
March 22nd, 2009 at 9:04 pm
man this was a big help! my girl was real satisfied. damn! never new sex could be that good!! fo’real tanx lots holmes!
March 26th, 2009 at 5:29 am
Very accurate… Remember it guys! Please! I wish my boyfriend would follow this…
April 9th, 2009 at 4:10 am
Guys, don’t forget that these things are meant to be special. Don’t do any particular combination of them all the time or it’ll just become routine. Change things up and don’t be afraid to experiment.
Totally agree with Katie and Emily. Opening car doors etc. on a daily basis would be silly. BUT if you’re taking your girl out on the town then those things would fit as a way for you to show her she’s still special to you.
April 30th, 2009 at 11:47 am
SHE LIKES WHEN I LCK THE BOOTY,YEAH FOOLS TRY IT SHE WILL GO CRAZZZZY
May 2nd, 2009 at 6:32 am
Ok these are really Great tips , even though i do most of these. i didnt know gently caressing behind the knee would get a female sexually satisfied (meaning wet) Another Great tip for guys is to kiss and rubb the inner thigh. if u do this your girl will be all over you and they will most likely moan. You can also kiss there below the waistwaist.(slightly above the vaginal area).Oh! and also try rubbing the heel of your girls foot softly some girlslike it. but hey it doesnt hurt to try
May 28th, 2009 at 1:18 am
terry smith wow dog that is so true dog the women need to move a little and your girl is so fuckin hot lol
June 3rd, 2009 at 4:53 pm
Thanks you! These are wonderful tips.
July 12th, 2009 at 3:13 pm
WOW!
this turned me n just reading it !!
guys you should definately remember this !
July 17th, 2009 at 9:05 pm
Well I like AT&T of these they work really well… But girls we guys open doors because WE feel that it is important not because we think or want u to be lazy. And I can understand if u are in a rush
July 25th, 2009 at 9:48 am
WOW mayn!!! its been a more than a year when our relationship is started… i wish my bf does all these things…(he does some of dem)..lol
July 28th, 2009 at 3:27 pm
I am 51 years old, and I am a diabetic.. I have a hard time with an erecton…. I had girls in the past and all they say is, ” We are Just Friends.” I do not want to just be friends and spend money on them. I want to kiss them and hug them and I want someone to be with. What advise do you have for an older guy in my situation? I also would like to know what age I should go out with. Lots of younger woman liked me, but I feel that I am to old for them. What are my age groups, and how do you treat different age groups?
Johnny
August 7th, 2009 at 7:53 pm
i wish my man knew all of this
August 8th, 2009 at 6:36 pm
@someone why don’t you tell him what you like. I am sure he is eager to please.
August 10th, 2009 at 11:34 pm
Omg, if only i knew most this stuff last night. Its true us men are turned on so easily. But most lads dont know how to turn lasses on. So i am glad i have found this Page!
August 16th, 2009 at 5:49 am
Wow….this is all really true…. I wish my man would do all this to me….it also turns me on when a guy rubs my lower back right above my ass (really lightly). Jessica
August 19th, 2009 at 4:35 am
this really works. i made my beautiful sex kitten horny as ever. she kept calling me papi and grabbing all over. thank you
September 5th, 2009 at 4:26 pm
I thnk this is tru if u in a relationship and u love ur wife…But sumtyms u feeling jukx (in south afrika this a term 4 horny) and u jus want 2get straight down to the point and make sweet lovin!
October 8th, 2009 at 9:40 pm
all you guys are crazy even though most of the things you all said is true. reading all your comments was hell of funny… much love angel
O.. and john age is just a number if the girl is of age… id say fuk it if yall like each other go for it
November 9th, 2009 at 12:47 am
Omg, i’m still pretty young and have just got my first serious girl friend, been going out for 1 1/2 months now and we had our first bit of oral sex the other day. I didn’t do badly however i had no idea there was so much to it. Reckon it took me about 30 minutes of kissing before i felt she felt she was confident enough for me to feel her up. This is really useful, but i’m looking for more tips, for example how to set a mood, and ways of teasing. Any Suggestion? I really care about my gf and am desperate to make her feel the way i do. I know this could be something great
November 22nd, 2009 at 11:48 am
omg…this article made me so horney wish i have a boyfriend in this level !!! but who am i kiddind? all what he talks about is how sexy are my boobs….i think i should break up with him it’s better…the sooner the best…..thanks for this article
December 20th, 2009 at 12:57 am
These tips are true…however opening the door for a woman will not turn her on…however it is very sweet & we appreciate it when u do…Ladies don’t b afraid to tell ur guy what turns u on…it makes things good…My man knows what turns me on & he is damn good(he actually figured it out on his own) But don’t b afraid to tell the guys…bsides when ur turned on it can turn them on…I no when im turned on i sometimes shudder & that drives my man crazy! Hope this helps some
February 4th, 2010 at 4:51 am
all these things work…she also likes to rub inside of her leg then she is all your;)
February 7th, 2010 at 7:11 pm
look great tips but some women are more sensitive then others so try a normal back massage & slowly touch around place’s that would be a turn on but don’t touch them make her won’t you to touch them it normally drives them nuts & try a full body massage but don’t touch the good areas almost touch them.
March 1st, 2010 at 7:01 am
My spiel…
Girls are usually in tune with their feelings and guys often are not. So being out of sync emotionally can create a few problems that can interfere with sexual arousal. This is why communication is important, even over seemingly stupid, petty issues. So, when you can “feel” her, her energy, and her presence and she can feel you, your energy, and your presence, arousal should be effortless.
What’s the solution to this emotional roadblock for men? -LEARN HOW TO BE IN TUNE WITH FEELINGS. Get to the point to where you can just be real with who you are and BE in and comfortable with your feelings– Not in a wus kind of way, but in a confident, centered, calm, respectful, strong, and almost protective sense.
Sometimes with new relationships, you become so nervous that true passionate feelings get clouded out by nervousness, distraction, or trying to fake having passionate feelings– BE REAL! EVERYTHING THAT YOU DO NEEDS TO BE EMOTIONALLY DRIVEN AND PASSIONATE! This is why my girl LOVES my lovemaking, she tells me that it’s passionate and heartfelt.
Don’t try to please her selfishlessly… as in your ego boost is dependent on how well you can please and satisfy her– you please and satisfy her because you enjoy it, not because you want to selfishly do it to make you feel better about yourself or to get an ego boost for YOU. Girls can pick up on ulterior motives.
It’s all about the touch; don’t have clumsy hands or fingers– learn how to touch her like mentioned in this article.
Kissing the inner thighs and around the pussy for a few minutes REALLY WORKS. By focusing around the vagina but not on it, you create anticipation. Anticipation
Sometimes, I can create so much anticipation, arousal, and excitement with my girl by doing these and some other things that she cums before I do. hahahaha yeah, it happens often
and she kindly reciprocates all of this because I am real about all that I do with her so she gives back 
March 30th, 2010 at 12:21 am
Don’t forget, bite that bottom lip gents, it works for me. It’s all I do and it gets my girlfriend, as of 2 months, aroused in heartbeats ;D
April 16th, 2010 at 4:38 pm
So, about the door thing. I think its cute when a guy opens doors for me. But with car doors, ok open it when youre getting in to the car. But those moments when he walks around to let you out, are the most awkward moments one will ever experience. One time i was like, ok screw that im getting out, but he had hurried around the car so by the time i got the door open he was almost there, and he got trapped by my door. It was really awful.
May 8th, 2010 at 5:59 pm
Shit this article got me all turned on, All of these things are true, dont be afraid to try it and honestly i already knew all of em… Try hugging ur girl and placing ur hands on her lower back, just above the ass, Let her feel ur breath on her neck, riiight below the ear and gently kiss her neck, a light bite would be sexy too
May 16th, 2010 at 7:03 pm
this is brill it does work. when i read the tips i thort thay would be a load of shit.
even my misses said i have got better in bed and it has brought us closer together.
and i accualy brought up the courage to ask her to marry me and gess wat she said yes!!!!.
May 18th, 2010 at 4:25 am
hahaha I’m a girl and this is so true!!
I don’t mind a guy opening doors for me every now and then. they just don’t have to do it EVERY time. The secret to that is just having the right timing. My boyfriend has it down
Also another big turn on for us girls is if we say “man my neck is sore…” we’re practically spelling it out for you to rub our neck/back.
One other one is alot of confidence, but if the girl isn’t ready to go as far as you are and doesn’t wana tell you, you HAVE to read the signs and stop. If you stop because you could tell she wasn’t ready then she’ll love you for not only being able to detect her uneasiness, but also for having the respect for her to stop. A girl shouldn’t HAVE to tell a guy when she’s insecure. It should be right in the guys face… haha
May 26th, 2010 at 4:22 am
I think these are all gr8! they turn me on so bad my looking at them! I’m gettin goose bumps and its turning me on hard core! lol
May 28th, 2010 at 8:32 pm
I think most of them are correct but the most thing that turn a woman on is the
Breasts its the best way to turn her on….
May 29th, 2010 at 11:07 pm
Good stuff and some great methods
jus one thing tho chaps u gotta hav confidence
lots of it. But not the cocky type.
Aswell always rememba: girls are as big pervs as guys are so don’t be afraid of. Talkin to ur girl abou wat turns her on too
May 31st, 2010 at 7:04 pm
Ok, now I’m REALLY horny. Like, it’s almost PAINFUL. Unfortunately though, my boyfriend dumped me a few days ago. Good thing i still have B.O.B. (battery operated boyfriend)
June 1st, 2010 at 9:25 pm
I disagree with Kat about the guy just having to be able to know when to stop. I bet it’s more difficult to do then said.
I personally would like the idea of a guy just being able to look at me and being like “hey, something’s up, I’ll stop”
But I think us girls’women/ladies or whatever should have the decentcy* to say how comfortable we are.
June 14th, 2010 at 10:40 pm
The nape of the neck is like the automatic win button
June 20th, 2010 at 11:16 pm
Wow they all work. They have perfectd my sex life. Thanx
July 2nd, 2010 at 5:00 am
haha these have all worked very well for me in the past, but when the guy is massaging her back, strattle her and in the middle of the massage slowly (barely touching the skin) run you lips/tongue down her spine to the base of her back and end it with a light kiss at the bottom. Keep in mind to breathe your warm breath on her back as you are making your way down
July 10th, 2010 at 5:11 am
Another thing that has worked for me many times is rub her belt line…. for some reason it works for me. try it, you may be rewarded
July 21st, 2010 at 6:00 am
this is great i wish my bf would do this, but what really turns me on is when he tellls me he wants 2 kiss and when i think about it he moves his hand+arm closer 2 me so the sexual tension gets so high i cant take it! Then i lay on top of him and we start making out. I also like 2 wrap my legs around his when were laying down. Also when he moves his hands near my aist or hip near my toosh but doesnt quite rearch it, makes me want more.. ya… thats the best:) adn when he plays with my hair. But dont twirl it thats wierd just gently comb ur fingers through it. I love sitting on his legs and pushing him down on the bed and then make out. Ugh but i hate it when guys push ur head 2 hard so nudge it gently:) and girls love it when u grab right near the top of their pants and move them closer near the dick area. Thats what really turns me on. Hope i helped:)
August 9th, 2010 at 12:54 am
this actually so true i searched this up for jokes at first but then i realized that whoever wrote this knew their stuff. It would work on any girl, even me lol