How to Turn a Girl On
How to turn a girl or women on, is a common question we get here. Men are visual creatures. We are genetically wired to reproduce. It does not take much more than the glimpse of a legto get a man in the mood. To turn a woman on, she will need some foreplay. A good rule of thumb is to take things really slow. Ask her what turns her on?
Guys it would be well worth your time to learn as much about a woman’s body as possible. It would also do you some good to read a couple romance novels. These books will give you a glimpse at what they fantasize about and what turns women on sexually.
You should strive to be the best lover you can be. You want to treat a woman’s body as the beautiful peace of art which it is. You want to touch her in ways which she has not been touched. I hear it from women all the time “true men are hard to find”. Chivalrous gestures will separate you from the competition. As you become a masterful lover you will be rewarded many times over.
Turn Ons For Women:
Here are some tips on how to turn your girl on. Every woman is different so just have fun!
Coat
When a women needs to put her coat, hold it up for her. If her hair is caught under the coat, gently brush the back of her neck with your hand as you move her hair from under the coat.
Car Door
Open the car door for your lady. Once she is seated gently close the door.
Her Back
Massage the muscles between her shoulder blades and spine. As you move lower on the back her nerves become more sensitive. During sex you can even take a back-rub break to delay ejaculation.
Back of Her Knees
Once your woman is aroused trace your fingers down the thigh and calf and gently graze the back of her kneed with your finger tips.
Breasts
Pay particular attention to the erogenous tissue at the top and underside of her breasts. Your touch should be so soft as to barely indent the skin. Build some tension in these areas before you touch the nipple.
Forearms
Underneath the wrist is very sensitive to touch and heat. This area responds best to the lightest of touches.
Fingers
When seated instead of the old hand holding, spice it up. Run your finger every so lightly down her fingers to her palm, start with her finger tips.
The Kiss
Softly kiss and tug on her upper lip. She will want to kiss you badly, but try and tease her a bit.
Neck
Brush your lips between her throat and chin. Also the sides of the neck are very sensitive. Lightly brush your lips up to her earlobes.
Ears
The ears offer two forms of arousal: physical and mental. Graze the rims of her ears with your fingers and nose.
Face
Massage the area of her face above the eyebrows. These will help her relax after a long day of work.
We hope you enjoyed this article on women turn ons.
May 22nd, 2006 at 12:01 pm
i think this is all so tru as it does it all 4 me. i am also a slag
January 9th, 2007 at 10:25 pm
yeah this is totally true ma sexy sex kitten does this..but I wonder how he already knew…well yeah he makes me feel really good….exspecially since I know he feels the same way I do…well yeah everything explains the way women think….
January 17th, 2007 at 10:43 am
oooook… for starters, guys, this is good advice. REMEMBER IT! if u wanna make ur woman feel special, this is a great way to do it… mentally, emotionally AND physically
December 19th, 2007 at 11:26 am
Wow i really think these are all great, they turn me on just reading them! Its such a shame i have an ugly face and I don’t know how to turn a girl on!
January 3rd, 2008 at 10:55 am
Omg this is so true, really good tips, on how to turn a women on.
February 29th, 2008 at 4:37 am
this is soo true, im turned in by just reading this
April 20th, 2008 at 10:20 am
thank you…I did try it and it work…guess what?? I really had a great time…
April 20th, 2008 at 1:45 pm
Hey thanks a lot for the advice it really helped a lot thanks again …..
May 5th, 2008 at 12:43 am
also hands around her waist and kiss the back of her neck whens she is not expecting it im a woman and i love it whenever my man does that to me
May 20th, 2008 at 9:33 pm
im gona give this a try but.. i want yas to all tale a look at a mans equivelent let it be known… us boys are tired of going on top during lovemaking and we sorta like it wen yas move a bit, hope my gf dont read this… but wow sum girls are lazy!
June 26th, 2008 at 2:42 am
this works kiss her lightly on her neck
June 26th, 2008 at 2:44 am
you can do this by kissing,sucking,and some times light bites do this and youre girl will be very ([[horny]])
June 28th, 2008 at 4:56 pm
a side note guys, you need confidence when doing these.
most women like a dominant man, not a pussy, they already have one of those.
so these should come off as you protecting her and providing for her, not you being a slave. especially early on in the relationship when she is learning what boundaries you have.
July 23rd, 2008 at 4:29 am
Damn i wish woman werent so hard to please but i need more tips these are helpful
August 2nd, 2008 at 7:35 am
Wow this is kool il try this tomorrow great for startes i arleady done some of this shit (all of it lol)
August 3rd, 2008 at 2:10 am
These are all great.
One thing that has worked well for me is gliding my index and middle fingers together from a girls fingertips, across her palm, and then over her wrist.
November 22nd, 2008 at 9:49 pm
Another turn on for women is when you brush her middel finger up and down slowly with your thumb and forefinger. She will not be able to wait until you get home, she will want you strait away.
November 25th, 2008 at 7:24 am
The door thing. No way. Not a turn on. If I’ve got loads of bags or boxes, sure its nice. But doing this routinely makes a person feel like an invalid. Not all girls like to be taken care of. Do you think I’m so dainty and fragile I can’t even open a door? Nope, think again! Whats more of a turn on is being treated like an equal, not like some prissy princess.
December 1st, 2008 at 9:20 am
wow… thank you this was a lot of help. thank you again
January 21st, 2009 at 2:35 am
this is so true i did this too my girl and i had her going for the whole night
February 12th, 2009 at 6:32 pm
katie i think you just have to stop being jealous because it does work
February 20th, 2009 at 5:19 pm
well no actually katie is kind of right! imagine if guys continuously open and shut the door for you…it just get annoying, especially if you are in a hurry to be somewhere and you gotta sit and wait for them to open the door for you! It would also make me feel lazy, i dont want to have to make you open the door for me thats hardly fair!
Other things that I think work are; looking a girl straight in the eyes, tracing the outline of her lips with the tip of your finger, nibbling her neck and playing with her hair. Confidence is a must too.
March 1st, 2009 at 6:51 am
licking their fingers also goin to make girls turned on… try to suck on em real good.. but be gentle dont rush
March 4th, 2009 at 5:03 am
My girl says just the way I kiss her turns her on is this normal
March 4th, 2009 at 5:09 am
foorget that just show her u love her don’t go so fast go at her pace this is coming from a guy ask her what turns her on don’t play around I ask my girl what she likes she doesn’t want sex I’m not gonna force it but I know what she likes so just ask her she will tell you remember this is coming from a guy
March 13th, 2009 at 6:45 am
WOW :)) HAHAHA those these tips work for asians too :)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) im not sure if its only my girl friend but touching her ass really gently gets her wet, and also blowing behind her ear.
hahahaha i didny know blowing behind her ear would make her wet 
she got mad at me 
she got wet during school because of this 
March 22nd, 2009 at 9:04 pm
man this was a big help! my girl was real satisfied. damn! never new sex could be that good!! fo’real tanx lots holmes!
March 26th, 2009 at 5:29 am
Very accurate… Remember it guys! Please! I wish my boyfriend would follow this…
April 9th, 2009 at 4:10 am
Guys, don’t forget that these things are meant to be special. Don’t do any particular combination of them all the time or it’ll just become routine. Change things up and don’t be afraid to experiment.
Totally agree with Katie and Emily. Opening car doors etc. on a daily basis would be silly. BUT if you’re taking your girl out on the town then those things would fit as a way for you to show her she’s still special to you.
April 30th, 2009 at 11:47 am
SHE LIKES WHEN I LCK THE BOOTY,YEAH FOOLS TRY IT SHE WILL GO CRAZZZZY
May 2nd, 2009 at 6:32 am
Ok these are really Great tips , even though i do most of these. i didnt know gently caressing behind the knee would get a female sexually satisfied (meaning wet) Another Great tip for guys is to kiss and rubb the inner thigh. if u do this your girl will be all over you and they will most likely moan. You can also kiss there below the waistwaist.(slightly above the vaginal area).Oh! and also try rubbing the heel of your girls foot softly some girlslike it. but hey it doesnt hurt to try
May 28th, 2009 at 1:18 am
terry smith wow dog that is so true dog the women need to move a little and your girl is so fuckin hot lol
June 3rd, 2009 at 4:53 pm
Thanks you! These are wonderful tips.