How to Turn a Girl On
How to turn a girl or women on, is a common question we get here. Men are visual creatures. We are genetically wired to reproduce. It does not take much more than the glimpse of a leg to get a man in the mood. To turn a woman on, she will need some foreplay. A good rule of thumb is to take things really slow. Ask her what turns her on?
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Guys it would be well worth your time to learn as much about a woman’s body as possible. It would also do you some good to read a couple romance novels. These books will give you a glimpse at what they fantasize about and what really gets them going.
You should strive to be the best lover you can be. Your time with your significant other should be all about her. With the right woman the more you give the more you receive! You want to treat a woman’s body as the beautiful art piece which it is. You want to touch her in ways which she has not been touched. I hear it from women all the time “true men are hard to find”. Chivalrous gestures will separate you from the competition. As you become a masterful lover you will be rewarded many times over.
Women Turn Ons:
Here are some tips on how to turn your girl on. Every woman is different so just have fun and enjoy the journey!
Coat
When a women needs to put her coat on, hold it up for her. If her hair is caught under the coat, gently brush the back of her neck with your hand as you move her hair from under the coat.
Car Door
Open the car door for your lady. Once she is seated gently close the door.
Her Back
Massage the muscles between her shoulder blades and spine. As you move lower on the back her nerves become more sensitive. During sex you can even take a back-rub break to delay ejaculation.
Back of Her Knees
Once your woman is aroused trace your fingers down the thigh and calf and gently graze the back of her knee with your finger tips.
Breasts
Pay particular attention to the erogenous tissue at the top and underside of her breasts. Your touch should be so soft as to barely indent the skin. Build some tension in these areas before you touch the nipple.
Forearms
Underneath the wrist is very sensitive to touch and heat. This area responds best to the lightest of touches.
Fingers
When seated instead of the old hand holding spice it up. Run your finger every so lightly down her fingers to her palm. Start with her finger tips.
The Kiss
Softly kiss and tug on her upper lip. She will want to kiss you badly, but try and tease her a bit.
Neck
Brush your lips between her throat and chin. Also the sides of the neck are very sensitive. Lightly brush your lips up to her earlobes.
Ears
The ears offer two forms of arousal: physical and mental. Graze the rims of her ears with your lips. Then escalate to some soft tongue grazing.
Face
Massage the area of her face above the eyebrows. These will help her relax after a long day of work. Most girls love gentle kisses to the forehead as well.
We hope you enjoyed this article on how to turn a girl on.
April 1st, 2011 at 1:31 pm
Good stuff here. Basic, but that doesn’t mean any less true or effective. And sometimes it’s just reminders of the basics is all that is needed. I applaud your efforts and want to remind others who may be struggling that it often IS the simple things, not the super secret, ‘mind tricks’ that you might be looking for that will truly help you out. Give these a shot first. Really. ;o)
April 4th, 2011 at 7:41 pm
All these thoughts are very helpful, in general it seems the best ways are to be soft and gentle with your woman and this will get her in the mood. Too many men want to rush in I think.
April 27th, 2011 at 5:16 am
im a girl and some of these things actually seem a little freeky lol like where a boy should massage the back of a girls nee to turn her on……well if my boyfriend did that to me i wud ask him wut the hell he is doing!! lol i dont even no where the back of the nee is but ya besides tht everything else is wut a girl likes:)
May 21st, 2011 at 5:26 am
i love all of these things except for the head massage i think that it would just be annoying, also
- kissing her hand or just leaving a trail of kisses from her ear lob to just bellng her collar bone but teasing her and not going over her breast
-when nibbling her ear lobe or kissing her neck then breathe lightly, just enough for her to feel it but not enough to freak her out
- run your finger or hand over her neck when your kidding her
-take kisses slow and romantic until she shows signs of the situation heating upp
-carress the inside of her thigh but donnt go too high just keep teasing
just some more suggestions
June 22nd, 2011 at 5:47 pm
I really love it when my boyfriend kisses my forehead… ^^