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1. mensius
   Member

   At first i have tell you my story...it’s not long
   Last week i was in shopping in same place i usually buy things
   But this time a girl was there really beautiful and perfect nice body. but little taller
   than me..and ...i am sure she is rich..in fact her father is owner some stores.
   after shopping i just come back and speak to her a but Tshirts and cloths...and i
   show my new t-shirt that buy from there! and ask abut her idea about that? .and...
   said my name to her and she said her name to me she was with smile and she ask me
   is the Norwegian language is hard to learn i said no it’s really soft and beautiful
   language..shy is norsk and..........i did that but .....

   what is the next move...

   thanks

   Posted 3 years ago #

2. jseamless
   TheSage

   Hello Mensius and welcome. It is hard to tell from your post, but does the girl work there?

   If she does, I would visit again and ask her out for a coffee or even better a cocktail. You may find these articles helpful, http://www.thesage-speaks.com/category/dating-advice/

   Please come back and let us know how it works out.

   Posted 3 years ago #

3. mensius
   Member

   hi
   thanks for answer..

   i live in norway but origin i am from asia just last year i came here for live here and i live in smale city in north of norway..

   that girl is norsk and yes she work there in center..

   i see her today she just walked in center and i start talk sed her name and ask abut her how are you and abut her work and it was just 2-3 minutes.but i dont know it was good and help full or not,and for nex time i have plan i wana go there after hello i start talk abut computer hardware (i am hardware specialist) and give her my number and sey if have problem abut computer call me ...! what you think abut this plan?

   and i have another question. usualy i make eye contact to people (fems) but i dont know why girls dont look at me and dont make eye contact too much but women always make eye contact and smile to me and look at me very long ?

   thanks ...

   Posted 3 years ago #

4. jseamless
   TheSage

   Don’t mask your interest with irrelevant questions or your knowledge of computer hardware. Next time you see her, make small talk about how her day is going, and then ask for her phone number.

   If she gives you her number, you have a good chance she will accept your offer for a drink.

   Do not ever give your number to a hot girl and expect her to call you. Hot girls don’t typically call guys because they have loads of other guys constantly pursuing them. Always get her number so you can control the situation.

   Always make eye contact! With females it is important to lock eyes. Let them break the lock. Tip always have a slight smile when you lock eyes with women. More male body language tips here, http://www.thesage-speaks.com/male-body-language-tips/

   Posted 3 years ago #

5. mensius
   Member

   hi..

   i see her yesterday but she didnt talk to me ..i dont know y ?
   i realy did nothing and she dont give me a time that i can do somthing ,,,you think i did mistake ??
   and why allways i make eye contact they dont response to me ?

   Posted 3 years ago #

6. jseamless
   TheSage

   There are many reasons why she acted the way she did. It would be wrong for us to speculate why.

   She could have been having a bad day. She could have reunited with an ex boyfriend, etc.

   This is why, it is best to not get hung up one girl. Just have fun and meet as many people as possible. All else will fall into place.

   Posted 3 years ago #

7. mensius
   Member

   hi at first thanks ...
   and i have 2 question

   1)that girl i told you before . yestarday i see her and she start talking and say hello ..and im confuse 1 day dont talk 1 day shy strat ..what i have to do with this gilr

   2)one woman work near us and abut 37 years old and when i see her make eye contact and always she smile ans sey helo together ...is this good position for strat ? and what you think ..for first move

   thanks ...

   Posted 3 years ago #

8. jseamless
   TheSage

   Women are driven by emotion and their moods change more frequently than men. That is why you must ask for to hang out while you have their interest.

   Just introduce yourself and talk to her one or two times then say; “you know, you seem rather cool and I would like to get to you. Let’s have a drink.” Keep it simple and honest.

   Posted 3 years ago #

9. Kabirkunle
   Member

   I have a neighbour that normaly disturb me and i want her, how could go about it?

   Posted 1 year ago #

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