Approaching Women, How to Approach Women/Woman

How to approach women is a question I often encounter. I would recommend you read my blog post about what woman find attractive in men first.

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In order to approach women, you will have to your life and head together. You will have to be totally confident and comfortable with your current life-style.

When approaching beautiful women, there are no perfect pick-up lines. I don’t like the connation associated with pick-up lines. How can you want to pick-up a woman you have not spoken to? She might be beautiful and have a great body, but trust me; if she is not beautiful on the inside you will be sick of her in five minutes.

To approach women the correct mindset to have is, “I wonder if she is my type?” So instead of having an anxiety-induced pick-up mindset, you are simply qualifying this woman as a person. Is she someone worth getting to know? Is she funny? Is she a great conversationalist? This is the frame of mind you should adopt when meeting women. You should be the choosy in your interactions with women. Don’t settle for a woman who does not add value to your current life.

Will Women Approach Me?

If you use a pick-up when a women approaches, you probably just shot yourself in the leg. You are much better off making a situational comment. If you have a sense of humor, use your imagination and add some comedy to the situation.

I am here to tell you that it really does not matter what you say when you approach women. Communication experts tell us most of communication, up to 93% is non-verbal. So in human communication, only 7% of communication is the words you use. The other 93% of communication is made up of body language, gestures and vocal tone.

Always make eye contact during your initial contact. You must give these women 100% of your attention. So learn to be an active listener. Use what she says to open up new threads of conversation.

Here are some conversation starters to help you approach women:

Book store – If she is looking at book. You best buy my book it is fabulous.

Coffee shop – You know where I can get some cotton candy around here?

Super Market – Do you know how to pick the perfect kumquat?

Bar/Lounge – I like this place have you been here before? What other places you enjoy going to?

Most of these openers are silly. I would deliver them with a smirk.

You should always be ready to strike up a conversation with women. You daily errands and work life bring you in contact with many people. If you have to, come up with some default conversation starters you can use in any situation.

I would recommend you check out some of Leil Lowndes books. She will help you gain the confidence you need, to approach beautiful women everywhere. She is an excellent author and speaker on starting conversations, romantic encounters, and she gives tips on how to approach women. This is a great book which ties into what we were speaking about, How to Talk to Anyone: 92 Little Tricks for Big Success in Relationships.

I want to drive home the fact it does not matter what you say, but how you say it. Attitude is everything! Good luck in your quest to approach women.

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